In this world full of lies, unfaithfulness, differences, and infidelity, the possibility to find your true love, and stay happily together seems to be an impossibility…
But still, we all want that special someone.
Who understands, trusts, encourages, supports, loves, and sticks with you until the end of time.
If you haven’t found the one yet, then you’re in the right place to increase your chance of finding him/her sooner.
If you think this love advice is just like what you have read in other online articles and teen magazines, wrong.
I wrote this article for people like you who might be looking for ways to search for their life partner – using the Law of Attraction to create a loving, vibrant, passionate, and harmonious relationship with that person.
So, either you already have a partner seeking for a relationship advice, or single and available, this article is worth your time to read!
If this is what you want, you are in the right place.
Stay here and keep on reading to find out…
Table of Contents
Your Consciousness Creates Everything
First, you must understand that we attract things and people into our lives that match our vibrations of frequency on a timely basis.
Meaning, if you are not aligned with your nature self, which is an imbalanced state, you are likely to attract people who may not be what you exactly desire.
The Law of Attraction is NEVER about others.
It’s always about you.
Your emotions. Your thoughts. Your actions.
You are perfectly creating your reality using these 3 tools, which means other people’s intention and action do NOT determine your reality at all.
Got it?
The Law of Attraction is never about others; it’s always about you, your emotions, thoughts, and actions. You are perfectly creating your own reality with these 3 tools, which means other people’s intentions and actions towards you don’t determine your reality.
Even though others’ energies don’t determine your reality, it can still affect your energy. So, be wise and careful with who you surround yourself with. You can only experience a reality that synchronizes to your vibrations – no exception. So, if you want to attract a loving, understanding, and passionate partner, you need to become that loving, understanding, and passionate person first.
Remember you can only experience a reality that matches to your vibration, there’s NO exception.
So if you want to attract a loving, understanding and healthy partner, it means you need to become that loving person first.
I mean, how can you expect to attract that understanding and loving person when you are the opposite person?
No, you can’t.
So, what should you exactly do to attract your true love?
The 5 Secrets Of Manifesting True Love
Even if you already understand how the Law of Attraction works, you may still get confused about its connection to love and relationships.
I frequently get asked questions about from my subscribers, and so I thought to seize this chance to share you the things you don’t know yet about how to manifest your true love.
1. Fall in Love with Yourself First
Yes, the most important step to manifest the love of your life is to love yourself first.
Sadly, for many it’s also the hardest task to accomplish.I bet you’ve heard at least once this saying, “You have to love yourself before someone else can love you.”
The reason is very simple – your ideal partner is the reflection of your own self.
For instance, if you’re looking to attract a person who truly loves you, you must first need to truly love and appreciate yourself, because – as I have said before – the physical reality is simply the reflection (mirror) of your consciousness.
You can’t expect to attract the love of your life even though you aren’t accepting and loving yourself.
Makes sense?
Of course, you will indeed meet some people who will love/like you at some point of your life, but they aren’t likely your true love or soulmate if you’re the one who doesn’t love and accept your true self.
Remember you attract what you are, not what you want or hope for.
"If you don't love yourself, you can't truly love someone else. How can you give something that you don't own?" − Reona Saito
So what can you do to love yourself?
You need to truly accept the way you are regardless of everything else.
Self-Love Comes First Before Soulmate Arrives
“I don’t deserve to be loved because I don’t look like as perfect as her.”
“I’m such a terrible person. God doesn’t love me.”
Let go of these negative ideas you have towards yourself.
And most importantly, you need to…
Stop Looking for Damn Reasons!
Yes, you need to stop looking for damn reasons to love yourself and telling those negative bullshit stories to yourself, instead, start loving yourself unconditionally.
I mean, REALLY unconditionally.
You don’t need any reason to LOVE yourself. Seriously.
If there is a reason to do so, it’s because you are YOU.
And it’s more than enough.
Love yourself the way you want you to be loved. Try your best to see the beauty and goodness in you, rather than focus on your flaws that will only make yourself feel miserable. Start taking care of yourself, because you matter.
Know you are lovable.
Find ways each day to nourish yourself with love, appreciation, positive thoughts, and tenderness.
"You, as much as you anyone in the universe deserve your love and affection." − Buddha
2. Define Your Ideal Partner
What is my “ideal partner”
Ask yourself. And think about it.
Because the more vivid your vision is, the better your result will be.
This is one of the very basic tips that can make your visualization more powerful!
But many of us usually forget about how powerful visualization can be when done in the right away.
Practice Visualization Daily
Who do you want to be with
What do you want the relationship to feel like?
What do you want him/her to look like?
What do you want him/her to be like?
The answers to these questions will give you a good idea of who you are looking for.
Create a detail profile and image of your ideal partner, and imagine yourself being with that person. Visualize how it smells, looks, and feels like as if you’re already with him/her. It might sound crazy, but it can actually give you a “preview” of your desired reality and help you think and feel what it’s like to live in such reality.
3. Be the Change You Want to See in the World
One of the most powerful ways to attract something into your life is to act, speak, and feel as if you already have what you want which is known as FTM (Fake It Till You Make It!) technique.
Here’s why this is so important when it comes to loving and romantic relationship…
True Purpose of Every Relationship
The purpose of a relationship is never about filling in the holes of what’s missing in your life.
This way of thinking will only lead to dependence and disappointment.
Be the person you want to be before you get into a relationship, and you are preparing yourself for a great relationship, and a great life, as well.
4. Trust the Universe & Leave Everything Else
You create your own reality by emitting your energy to the universe.
And your “trust” plays a big role in the process of reality creation, because what you feel is a result of what you are trusting/believing.
You know that already, right?
What You Believe = What You Feel
Your emotion is a good sign that shows what kind of beliefs you have and what you are believing.
When you don’t trust yourself, you experience the sign as “doubt” which makes you worry and feel anxiety, these negative emotions will only create more unwanted situations in your life.
On the other hand, when you are trusting yourself, you feel empowered, motivated and supported.
It’s a great sign that you are on the right path to manifesting the love of your life.
Claim what you want to the universe and leave everything else to it.
Hakuna Matata, it is.
Fear can keep us up all night long, but faith can make us a fine pillow.
Quality Over Time!
Also, many people usually misunderstand that you have to think about what you want all the time in order attract something.
It’s NOT true, there’s no need of thinking about your soulmate 24/7.
Spending at least 15 to 20 minutes a day of visualizing your soulmate is enough. If you do it as you are taught, you will be able to claim that desire, and gain peace of mind and confidence to leave everything else in the hands of the universe. Enjoy your life to its fullest as you trust the process even if you can’t see the results yet. Just keep believing.
5. Be Happy Before You're in Relationship
If you are depending your happiness on someone else or things − you should realize it can be easily taken away at any time, as they are external things that change without your control.
Don’t bet your happiness on anything else, which is not you.
Don’t forget that your true happiness always comes from within, and it’s literally your inner job!
Your happiness will attract happy, contented, and loving people. And together, you will open a path towards strong, blissful, and passionate relationship.
Embrace Your Life With Love & Awareness
When you’re willing to take loving action in your own behalf to bring yourself happiness and joy, then you’re no longer dependent upon another to do this for you.
How to Create a Conscious Relationship
Have you ever wondered why many of us struggle to find the love we desire or have a successful relationship?
It doesn’t happen to many of us because we are not living being true to ourselves.
What I mean by this is that people try to find their true love by renouncing themselves in some way, or trying to change themselves in some way.
In the movies, we always see the protagonist lover making a solemn commitment, and saying things like, “I promise I will change myself, so you can love me.” And then end the scene with a happy ending. It’s the opposite in reality; it will likely end to an inevitable break-up or result into a turbulent and unhappy relationship.
Stop Trying So Hard to Please Others
If your motivation to change yourself is to get or keep someone’s love, you are already a prisoner to their approval of you and such a mindset always causes you a desperate neediness, which creates a strong “fear” of losing that person.
This fear suppresses your nature-self and will cause a lot of problems in your relationship in the long run.
"When you love a person, all fear disappears. And when you're afraid, all love disappears." - Osho
And secondly, if you are trying to be in love with someone out of a need for security, or for the fear of being lonely (being single), this again leads to a loveless relationship since your motivation for the relationship is for all the wrong reasons.
Be aware of what’s happening in you is the beginning of the conscious relationship with your partner. Focus on yourself first, and then find out what you can do to help resolve the relationship with your life partner.
Wrapping It Up
I experienced these things myself in my past relationship with my first love.
In the end, we ended up choosing different path due to our difference and the problems that got between us.
But these experiences opened my eyes and made me realize how individual level of negativity can affect our relationship.
Looking back, I could clearly see that: I had a strong fear of losing her, which eventually had manifested into my reality, unfortunately.
Negativity, especially “fear” is the biggest reason why many relationships fail.
People in the happiest relationships don’t have a fear of losing each other because they truly understand they only choose to stay together, simply because that’s what they want.
Just remember your work is never changing others or your partner, it’s always about “you” because that’s where everything begins from.
You first have to be the change you want to see in the world to create what you want.
No expectations or promises are needed in order to keep your relationship strong. Two people involved should only love and accept each other from the worst to the best version of their partners. When both of them share this high-level of thinking (consciousness), they will become stronger to face difficulties, challenges, and struggles as a couple. This is the type of a relationship that we all should call “ideal” and “perfect”.
So claim your truth, feel the love, believe you can have whatever you want, and you will be on your way to manifesting the life and the love you truly desire.
Let Me Know What You Think!
Do you find this article helpful?
Share this to your friends or your social network, so together we can spread good news and encourage more people to stay positive, because each and every one of us is destined for someone.
All we have to do is to love ourselves, be our best, and love and wait patiently.
I also have a question for you:
What was the most important lesson you’ve learned from your past relationships or current relationship?
Don’t hesitate to share your answers to the comment section below.
I would be delighted to hear your story, or if you have additional tips to keeping a relationship strong and healthy.
Let’s help each other learn and grow!
For those who have questions, feedback, or requests, you are welcome to share your thoughts, too!
I wish you all the best in your life, love, and relationships.
12 Responses
Wow! What an article great work dear Reona. You can change the life of so many people who have been engulfed by the negativity, so here you might become a beacon or a ray of hope for all those who have been suffering from this dangerous cycle of negativity as it can produce so many other problems which can halt the bright side of anybody, you are too young according to the job you are doing out there, it’s staggering for me that in this young age how someone can have this level of insight. From your end you are just sharing these articles but how it can create impact on others you can’t understand this matter. So I would like to tell you that please carry on with this job I assure you that you will get the desired result of it. One more thing your writing style is also incredible because you write in a simple manner which is understandable for almost everybody, if studying your article with proper attention and try to learn the theme of it.
Gosh! Thank you so much for the uplifting message Muteeb. This SERIOUSLY made my day! Like REALLY.
I know how harmful our thoughts could be, especially when it’s infused with strong negative emotions…
I have also experienced the long darkest days. But, I could change myself only because there were “people” who taught me how to get through it, and I’m just doing the same thing to people like you because I CAN. It doesn’t only make me happy but makes my life SO much more meaningful knowing I’m influencing people’s live in a positive way :)
So there’s no way I would stop this work, this is my passion as well as my soul’s mission, that to push humanity forward and make this planet a better place.
And as I said in this article, that’s exactly what human relationships are for, helping each other grow and become the best version of ourselves. I’m also leaning a lot of things from our relationships, so thank you for giving me this opportunity and becoming an awesome friend of mine. You rock Muteeb!
Hi Reona… Can you please tell me how can I manifest marriage with my love when his parents are not getting agreed because he is six years younger to me?
Hey Sonia,
That can be achieved through the method called Law of Attraction, which you are already doing every second of your life whether you believe it or not. I bet you are already familiar with it, aren’t you?
What you are trying to do is a manifest a reality where your boyfriend’s parents agree with your marriage with their son. If that’s the case, I recommend you to visualize yourself having a very good relationship with his parents, imagine how it feels like to be welcomed and accepted by them. Feel the happiness and joy in you that comes from these happy visions, immerse yourself in these positive emotions as long as possible and be consistent with the vibration.
That’s the key to direct your life in a way you prefer. Once again, your reality is simply a result of your vibrational statement, nothing more.
Also I wrote a super informative article with very actionable steps for how to use your mind power to attract the life you want, so check it out: https://mindsetdev.com/what-is-mind-power-and-how-to-use-it/
Hi Reona,
I must commend you for this life-changing write-up. Every word fused together to make a sentence underlines the dept of passion and enthusiasm you’ve got towards the course of humanity and a better world. Jst felt a surge of upliftment seeing a young lad like me who shares my vision. Hope you wouldnt turn me down when I do invite you as a guest writer for my blog some day. Nice work brother!
Hey Henry, thank you for the wonderful message! I believe in where my passion takes me, and I’m showing everyone that you can do the same by being an example. I’m glad to have the people like you who has the same vision as mine.
You must be an awesome person ;) And of course, it’s fine if I’m available at that time, can I ask what’s your blog?
Oh my goodness! What an amazing post! Thank you.. However I’m experiencing dilemma with your RSS feed. Don’t understand why unable to subscribe to it. Is there anyone getting indistinguishable RSS trouble? Anyone who understands kindly respond. Thanks
Hi Casie, sorry for the mess with RSS feed.
The best way to get updated is to subscribe my email list from home and follow my social media on Facebook and Twitter. You can find me on @mindsetdev
Wow!! I’m speechless… fantastic article. Great work!
Glad you liked it Alana!
Hi Reona. I’m currently just broke up with my partner. And reading your article somehow lifted up my spirit and helped me accept what is already gone. Hoping to read more especially now that I need hope and light in my life. Thank you!
Hi Arlen, thanks for reading my article! I’m glad to hear that my article has helped you feel better even a little. I’ve been away from blogging for a while since I’m busy getting my brand re-launched (very soon). But once it’s done, we’ll start dropping articles frequently and will update via newsletter. Stay tuned!