Discover the 5 Secrets to Attract Your Perfect Soulmate
We all want that one special person who understands
If you already met such a person, you are definitely lucky. So keep it.
I wrote this article for everyone who's looking to attract their true love a.k.a soulmate using the law of attraction and create a loving, vibrant, alive, passionate and harmonious relationship with that person. Either you're already in a relationship or looking for a partner, this article can help :)
If this is what you want, you are in the right place. Stay here and keep on reading to find out...
What You Will Learn In This Article
- How to attract soulmate using the law of attraction
- How to be happy with yourself & develop self-love
- True purpose of every human relationship
- How to build a conscious relationship with your partner
You Are the Attraction Magnet
Firstly, you must understand that we are perfectly attracting people and things into our life that vibrationally match with our frequency moment-to-moment.
This means if you are not aligned with your nature self which is an imbalanced state, then the people you would be attracting may not be what you exactly desire.
The Consciousness Creates Everything
The law of attraction is NEVER about others, it's always about you − your emotions, your thoughts and your actions. You perfectly create your reality using these 3 tools, which means other people's intention and action do NOT determine your reality at all.
Got it, buddy?
You can only experience a reality that matches to your vibration, there's NO exception. So if you want to attract a loving, understanding and healthy partner, it means you need to become that loving person first.
I mean, how can you expect to attract that understanding and loving person when you are the opposite person?
No, you can't do that.
You exactly receive what you are.
That's it, these are very basic ideas of the law of attraction. I bet many of you already know about it, but I wanted to explain briefly for those who didn't know :)
Now, you are ready to go to the next step...
So what should you exactly do to attract your true love?
5 Secrets That You Probably Don't Know for Manifesting Soulmates
Even if you already understand how the LOA works, you may be confused about this when it comes to love... I get questions about love and relationship quite often from my subscribers who are already familiar with it.
So today, I'm going to share with you the 5 secrets to manifesting the love of your life using the law of attraction, which you probably don't know yet...
#1 - Fall in Love with Yourself First
Yes, this is the most important thing you can do to manifest the love of your life. And this is also usually the hardest step for us to take...
I bet you've heard at least once that you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. The reason is very simple − our ideal partner is a reflection of ourselves.
You can't expect to attract the love of your life with an imbalanced state where you aren't accepting and loving yourself.
I'm not saying you can't attract people who love you. Of course, you will indeed meet some people who will love/like you at some point of your life, but they aren't likely your true love or soulmate.
Remember you attract what you are, not what you want or hope for.
"If you don't love yourself, you can never truly love someone else. How can you give something that you don't even have?" - Reona Saito
1-1: Self-Love Comes First Before Soulmates Arrives
So what can you do to love yourself?
You need to truly accept the way you are regardless of everything else.
"I don't deserve to be loved because I don't look like as perfect as her."
"I'm the worst person ever. God doesn't love me."
Let go of these negative ideas you have towards yourself. And most importantly, you need to...
1-2: Stop Looking for Damn Reasons!
Yes, you need to stop looking for damn reasons to love yourself and telling these negative bullshit to yourself, instead, start loving yourself unconditionally. I mean, REALLY unconditionally.
You don't need any reason to LOVE yourself. If there is a reason to do so, it's because you are YOU. This reason is more than enough.
Know you are lovable. Find ways each day to nourish yourself with love, appreciation, positive thoughts, and tenderness.
You, as much as you anyone in the universe deserve your love and affection. − Buddha
#2 - Define Your True Soulmate
What is "ideal partner" for you?
Think about it.
Because the more vivid your vision is, the better your result will be. This is one of the very basic tips that can make your visualization more powerful! But many of us usually forget about how powerful visualization can be when done in the right away...
2-1: Practice Visualization Daily
Who do you want to be with? What do you want the relationship to feel like? What do you want him/her to look like? What do you want him/her to be like? The answers to these questions will give you a good idea of who you are looking for.
If you want to take your visualization to the whole next level and manifest your ultimate goals faster, then I have a free invitation for you to learn the World's Most Powerful Visualization technique called "Quantum Jumping" which was developed by Burt Goldman. It's one of my most favorite programs, which is why I'm recommending you now. You can sign up for his FREE course to go through Quantum Jumping. It's seriously good stuff, don't miss this opportunity.
#3. Be the Change You Want to See in the World
One of the most powerful methods to attract something into your life is to act, speak, and feel as if you already have what you want which is known as FTM technique. Here's why this is so important when it comes to loving and romantic relationship...
3-1: True Purpose of Every Relationship
The purpose of a relationship is never about filling in the holes of what's missing in your life. This way of thinking will only lead to dependence and disappointment.
Be the person you want to be before you get into a relationship, and you are preparing yourself for a great relationship, and a great life, as well.
#4 - Trust the Universe & Leave Everything Else
You create your own reality by emitting your energy to the universe. And your "trust" plays a big role in the process of reality creation, because what you feel is a result of what you are trusting/believing.
You know that already, right?
4-1: What You Believe = What You Feel
Your emotion is a good sign that shows what kind of beliefs you have and what you are believing. When you don't trust yourself, you experience the sign as "doubt" which makes you worry and feel anxiety, these negative emotions will only create more unwanted situations in your life.
On the other hand, when you are trusting yourself, you feel empowered, motivated and supported. It's a great sign that you are on the right path to manifesting the love of your life. Claim what you want to the universe and leave everything else to it.
Fear can keep us up all night long, but faith can make us a fine pillow.
4-2: Quality Over Time!
Also, many people usually misunderstand that you have to think about what you want all the time in order attract something. It's not true, there's no need of thinking about your soulmate 24/7.
#5 - Learn to Be Happy Before You Are in Relationship
If you are not happy with yourself, chances are you aren't happy even if you are in a relationship, because you are the only one who's capable of making yourself happy. If you are depending your happiness on someone else or things − you should realize it can be easily taken away at any time, as they (things) are always changing.
Don't bet your happiness on anything else, which is not you.
Don't forget that your true happiness always comes from within, and it's literally your inner-job!
5-1: Embarrass Your Life With Love & Awareness
When you're willing to take loving action in your own behalf to bring yourself happiness and joy, then you're no longer dependent upon another to do this for you.
Developing a Conscious Relationship with Your Partner
Have you ever wondered why many of us struggle to find the love we desire or have a successful relationship?
It doesn't happen to most of us because we are not living being true to ourselves. What I mean by this is that people try to find their true love by renouncing themselves in some way, or trying to change themselves in some way.
Stop Trying so Hard to Please Others
If your motivation to change yourself is to get or keep someone's love, you are already a prisoner to their approval of you and such a mindset always causes you a desperate neediness, which creates a strong "fear" of losing that person. This fear suppresses your nature-self and will cause a lot of problems in your relationship in the long run.
"When you love a person, all fear disappears. And when you're afraid, all love disappears." - Osho
And secondly, if you are trying to be in love with someone out of a need for security, or for the fear of being lonely (being single), this again leads to a loveless relationship since your motivation for the relationship is for all the wrong reasons.
Wrapping It Up
As myself, I experienced these things (which I've just shared with you above) in the past relationship with my first love. In the end, we chose the different path for each other due to personal problems we had.
But these experiences opened my eyes and made me realize how individual level of the negativity can affect our relationship. Looking back, I can clearly see that: I had a strong fear of losing her, which eventually had manifested into my reality, unfortunately...
Negativity, especially "fear" is the biggest reason why our relationship fails. People in the happiest relationships, don't have a fear of losing each other because they truly understand they only choose to stay together, simply because that's what they want.
This type of relationship is the best and ideal for any kind of relationships.
Just remember your work is never changing others or your partner, it's always about "you" because that's where everything begins from. You first have to be the change you want to see in the world to create what you want.
So claim your truth, feel the love, believe you can have whatever you want, and you will be on your way to manifesting the life and the love you truly desire.
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Also, I have a question for you...
What kind of relationship do you want to have with your partner?
Let me know your ideal relationship in the comments below, or share your tips for how you are keeping your relationship great and healthy.
Any question, request or feedback are welcome too. Thank you for reading till the end. I'm wishing you all the best in your love and relationship :-)
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